Thanks to many movies and dramas that we have seen in our lives,sometimes even fantasy animations(except for a few),which made us romanticize that one person in our life. There would be someone who would suddenly appear in your life from nowhere and would change your life dramatically for the better. We are always made to believe that because of one person we would feel better about our-self ,our life would be happier,we would be happier than before and what not.
To be honest, the only person who could make you feel better is “YOU”. The only person who can change your life is “YOU”. The only person who is responsible for your happiness is “YOU”.The only person who is with you from the day you were born till the day you die is “YOU”. You can be your own best company or even the worst company. Everything in your life depends on how you treat your self. Whether you achieve big things or not ,it depends only on your belief system,not on others.
We get so scared to take responsibility of our own life and our-self,that we all wait for someone to come into our lives and make it better. There is nothing wrong about having that one special person in your life,but when you hate yourself or loathe yourself,no matter how much love and affection you receive from others,it would never be enough.There is no other person who could make you love your-self except for “YOU”.Focus on making yourself a better person.Take matters of your life into your own hands. Treat yourself better.Love yourself,respect yourself.Take care of yourself and see how things change for the best in your life. It all starts with “YOU”.