It might sound strange like what is forgiving one self. Forgiveness is always something that you never do for yourself.Rather you expect it from others. Whenever we hurt others,we ask them for forgiveness.But what about the hurt you cause yourself?
There are a lot of times in your life, where we do hurt ourselves more than others.We have ridiculous thoughts about destroying our self, we don’t happen to see our worth.There are times when we carry a sense of guilt even without realizing that this particular sense of guilt might bring health issues in future both physical and mental.There are lot of researches that were conducted to study the relationship between guilt and well being of a person.In most of the cases,guilt played the culprit in causing chronic illness in human body.
It doesn’t matter whether the other person forgives you,but you have to forgive yourself first. Because you have to live with none other than your SELF for the rest of your life.It is Ok. It was never your fault. Stop blaming yourself for things that were never in your control. Even if they were in your control,it’s ok,That was the best you can do at that moment.Don’t punish yourself by carrying this sense of guilt.Rather free yourself from it. Promise yourself to do better if a similar situation arises in the future, but don’t succumb yourself to this guilt.
Forgive yourself for treating you badly,under valuing you, for thinking you are the worst and for all that reasons ,that only you knew about. Before asking for forgiveness to another person, seek it from yourself first.And the rest will eventually fall into places.